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Monday, December 09, 2013

Six Tips on How to Keep a Good Relationship with Your Boyfriend

A successful, loving, happy and committed relationship is one thing that everyone would want out of life. If you are in a romantic union and wish to know how to keep a good relationship with your boyfriend, be aware that it will take both hard work and effort from both of you. But the most crucial thing is doing your part perfectly in keeping the relationship as fulfilling and happy as possible.

Remember that when it comes to maintaining a really good, strong and loving relationship which brings joy to both of you, then you have to be ready for a fair bit of work at some point. So it’s high time you took a step back from the dizzying sensation of being swept off your feet and thought about employing the following tips to help learn how to make your relationship better with your boyfriend, so as to ensure that the union lasts and is strong enough to withstand any conflicts that may arise. Read on!

1. Learn about his personality. When you understand your boyfriend’s personality, you’ll get to know the things that he likes or does not like. For example, if you have a quiet boyfriend, you would get to know that they are not likely to talk a lot.

2. Listen to him. Communication is the cornerstone maintaining a good relationship, especially a romantic one. Take your time and listen to what your boyfriend has to say, focus on what he is saying and avoid the usual need to speak quickly especially in an argumentative or heated debate.

3. Let him be your best friend. Romance does not always last. At times you may find yourself not in the mood to be all “lovey-dovey, cuddling by the fireside,” romantic with him. Actually this doesn’t imply that romance is bad, it’s just that you may not maintain it 24/7. Simply thinking that romance is all is needed in a relationship will get you to a big trouble. Good relationship means being good friends, even if the romance is absent.

4. Be truthful/ honest and trust him. Honesty and trust go hand in hand because it’s actually tough to trust someone when you aren’t being honest to that person. Ave you ever told him that you had to go to work on Friday night but it turned out you are at the movies with his friends? The next time you’ll say you have to work, he’ll have a lot more trouble believing you and the trust will be on a shaky ground.

5. Accept him. Just love him the way you are. Just let it to be simply love, and nothing else. Your relationship should be the most precious thing for you. It should be the one place where you can truly be yourself, flaws and all! Do not judge him and do not pretend or disguise yourself under the shadow of love. And if you are trying to impress him, do not go overboard with a whole new wardrobe or a ton of make-up. Men are very sensitive even to the simplest changes.

6. Mutual respect. The key thing is that your boyfriend is probably into you for who you are – for your love of reality TV, for your sense of humor, etc. Do you listen when he says he’s not comfortable with you doing something and then backs off right away? Be informed that in a relationship, respect means you value who he is and understands – and remember not to challenge – his person’s boundaries.

This is your relationship and you need to take charge of it by appreciating the above techniques try sending Him some Dirty Texts too.. In addition think about the qualities both of you value in your relationship and work on developing those good qualities in yourself because they will make you a lot more attractive to him.

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