Should I Text Him First or Wait for Him to Text Me

With the magnificent advancement of mobile connectivity and internet networking building relations online via chatting and texting has been the recent trend that has caught up within the youngsters these days. Texting is found out to be the most common way today of socializing with other people, wherein youngsters are found to be more hooked to it.

It is often believed that the first step in moving ahead into a relationship is taken by boys but the feeling at the other end of girl can also be the same!! In such a situation the most pertinent question that can arise within a girls mind can be 'Should I text him first or wait for him to text me?’ In such situations give yourself some time to transit from the stage of knowing each other to being good friends. Sometimes the guy you want to talk to might be shy and may not make the first move. If you share a good rapport there is absolute no harm to text him and begin the conversation.

Thinking that 'Should I text him first or wait for him to text me?’ does not always work. You can begin with a formal message of 'Hi… How are you?’ or 'how was your day?’ Making a polite move in the start will surely serve to build a healthy relationship, rather than keeping ego. Remember ego and arrogance are never welcomed to appreciate a long relationship.

Once you start on a good conversational tone try to multiply the conversations with texting more. This will help you to know each other better. A light joke or fun often gives spark to a good relationship. Move your relation to the next level by texting more and knowing the likes and dislikes of each other.

However during texting you may come to know that the guy is less responsive. In such a situation be a little patient. Text him twice or thrice but remember 5 Times you shouldn’t text him in a day. This shows that you are quite submissive and are desperate for to move ahead. Don’t lose your individuality and self-respect. Sometimes it also may happen that due to his busy schedule of work he might not be responding. Just remember that patience is the best virtue. So be wise enough and take the right calls at the right time.