The main reason why men pull away from
relationships doesn’t necessarily depend on how messed up the relationship is
or your physical looks (never mind it was the first aspect that got him
attracted to you in the first instance). A man will pull away if he is not
getting sufficient attraction to make him feel that he should be with you. How
do you bring him back to the fold when he withdraws?
When a man pulls away, here’s how to bring him
closer:
Arouse More Than the Physical Attraction…You have
to awaken more than physical senses if you are to create a long lasting
interest from your man. Sadly most women don’t know how to do this. You must
keep the level of attraction at high levels if you are to get from simple
greetings to sharing attraction and intimacy.
Be Skilled at Handling Common Situations…It is
difficult to be in a relationship without fights, but don’t make such fights be
the reason for breakups. If genuine love is what you made of, avoid mistakes
you did in your last relationships. You can’t keep doing the same thing over
and over and hope for different results. Most men simply don’t tolerate
eccentric behaviors and will end up pulling away if they occur
repetitively.
Understand His Emotional Environment …Contrary
to a popular conception, men have an emotional side too, the most delicate
kind. Don’t be fooled by the masculinity, your man may be as emotional (if not
more) as you. Failing to understand your man emotional environment will
gradually lead to his withdraw. Men express emotions in an indirect and
figurative way. When a man pulls away, how do you bring him closer? Attune to
his emotional world and the rest will fall into place.
In the quest to draw your man closer start by asking yourself, why does he keep pulling away? After establishing the main reasons, work towards improving them. The above tips will certainly be helpful.
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